I just became dad.

Not just, but about 9 months ago. I have felt like a dad only recently, when the kid decided to respond like she knew me.

Did you feel like a dad on day one? I'm sure it was life changing, in several ways. But has the feeling settled down now? That seems to follow a bit later, and it marks the point when one or more of the following will hit you:

Fitness: Am I fit enought to run behind the kid, play 2 hours, manage 80 hour weeks and still be smiling at the dinner table?

Finances: Am I saving enough for what's coming up? 

Growth: Where does my career go from here, now that I have worked hard 10 years and may want more time at home?

Stability: Oh and the house? I must buy a house real soon.

And the most important one:

Parenting: Can I be as responsible as my dad was? With a lot more fun thrown in.

Most men will go through these questions in their head, rarely talk about it and even more rarely, find the answers. Its only harder because accurate information and good advice are hard to find. 

The good thing is that all of us, know bits of this job. All of us, have some experience that can help others become better at this role. If only we could share it.

That's Suprdad: A community of men, who are still work in progress. Who are trying to become the best dads that their children could ask for. Because hey, a bunch of responsible dads can change the world. 

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